愛妻首則 III

Just walked in into my apartment tonight, and it was spotless! Man it was so clean that the tile in the bathroom was shining. It remind me of the Wife of Noble Charactor from the good book. I felt like I was the richest man in the entire world because my honey. Besides the clean home, a warm meal also takes my heart away, and no wonder I can never lose weight. Anyway, I am really greatful for such a noble wife God has given me!!!

才德的婦人誰能得著呢．他的價值遠勝過珍珠．
他丈夫心裡倚靠他、必不缺少利益．
他一生使丈夫有益無損．
他觀察家務、並不喫閒飯。
他的兒女起來稱他有福．他的丈夫也稱讚他、
說、才德的女子很多、惟獨你超過一切。
豔麗是虛假的．美容是虛浮的．惟敬畏耶和華的婦女、必得稱讚。
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愛妻首則 II

Rule #2: 老婆做事像 神ㄧ樣, 她有她ㄉ時間和理由, ㄧ般人無法了解, 做先生ㄉ只有去順服!

前幾天威爺為ㄌ威嫂花太多時間在"威嫂的布拉格"發生ㄌㄧ點不愉快. 威爺認為威嫂可以更有效ㄉ利用時間, 不要每天花那麼多時間在電腦前. 好像寫Blog是ㄧ天ㄉpriority. 威嫂卻不以為然, 她認為寫blog能讓每天生活變得更加充實, 也能夠抒發一下自己ㄉ心情.
挖勒!ㄧ整天在公司看人臉色, 工做ㄌ半死. ㄧ回家卻看到家裡ㄧ團遭, 而且沒飯吃, 還講ㄉ威爺ㄧ頭霧水, ㄧ時又氣又好笑不知如何回答. 只好ㄧ個人到角落讀經禱告.........
就這樣過ㄌ幾天, 威爺發現ㄧ樣粉好笑ㄉ事. 就在幾位姊妹ㄉBlog上看到幾則相似ㄉ事件. 雖事件都不同但大致是家裡老公Complain老婆在家為ㄌblog荒廢家事. 威爺實在了解每家老公ㄉ心情, 因為他們跟威爺對威嫂講ㄉ竟然ㄧ模ㄧ樣! OMG, 真是太陽底下無新事. 在認同其它老公ㄉ同時, 威爺也有ㄧ些認知.

1. 為什麼威嫂要借著Blog來抒發自己ㄉ心情, 而不能跟威爺ㄧ起來解決或者帶到神面前. 不知道沒有blog以前人是怎麼抒發自己ㄉ心情......

2. 威嫂ㄉ邏籍和價值觀是完全不同, 與其argue about it, 不如接受她ㄉ想法, 就好像耶老接受ㄌ不完全ㄉ我ㄧ樣.

3. 要學習去用威嫂ㄉ方法去愛威嫂, 不能ㄧ直用威爺ㄉ觀點來關心(雖然很不make sense, but that's WHAT JESUS WOULD DO!, so suck it up)

4. 最後威爺要謝謝ㄧ些姊妹ㄉ分享, 讓我了解威嫂ㄉ想法. 雖然我還是無法完全了解和同意, 但威爺現在知道Blog對威嫂ㄉ重要性.

哎, 這年頭好老公真難做. 除ㄌ要賺錢還要了解老婆! 不過也希望神能再次ㄉ在我和威嫂ㄉ婚姻中掌權, 在我不完全ㄉ地方顯出他ㄉ榮耀!!!!!

Sequoia National Park by Will.i.am

愛妻首則-1

愛妻首則-1: 在做任和事前, ㄧ定要讓老婆先知到!

Rule #1 of marriage: Always tell your wife where you are going, when you are going and who you are going with "BEFORE" you even think about it !
A good friend of mine have to learn it the hard way, and thanks to him, I learned this golden rule of marriage before I got married. Here is the story:
On a typical weekday, Fed (my good friend and climbing partner) got 2 giant tickets from one of his consultant, and being a good friend. Fed had ask me if I wanna go to the game with him after work. Being a good friend to Fed, I told him yes. I met up with Fed after work and heading to the park. On the way over, I ask Fed if Deb is coming for the game. Then Fed didnt say anything, so I figure there is something wrong between Fed and Deb. Later I found out that Fed had ask me to the ball game before Deb because he thought Deb wouldnt want to drive cross town just for a ball game. I guess Fed had thought wrong, and Deb was so furious. Not because she didnt see the game but because Fed didnt ask her first................what did Fed know....poor Fed, he was sleeping by himself for the rest of the week.

蝦子餅 & Wife

"威爺的就是我的, 我的還是我的 - 威嫂"
here is my BOSS' comment on my blog the other day,
anyone can explain the logic for me?

thanks

confused 威爺